Question of the Day #40: 12 Steppers
Here's a good one about Alcoholics Anonymous. The eighth step in the program is to make a list of friends that have been harmed by the person's drinking, and then the nineth is to make amends. Considering that these are sandwiched between religious dogma about servatude and humility before God, steps 8 and 9 become rather loathsome and patronizing when put into their full context.
My Question: Let's say you know someone in AA. How do you respond to them when they come around to make amends?